Relaxing Summer Evenings

One of my favorite things about summertime is how the days stretch out a little longer. The heat may push us indoors during the afternoon, but in exchange, the evenings come alive with possibility.

For a long time, my husband and I would eat a quick dinner in front of the TV and let one show turn into several. Before we knew it, the sun had set and we were heading to bed without really having spent the evening together. These days, we’ve started using that last bit of daylight differently and it's made such a difference.

When we slow down enough to notice the world around us, it helps us truly rest and connect as a couple. It’s not always easy, and it doesn’t happen every night. But being intentional about how we spend those hours has helped us reconnect, unwind, and rediscover joy in small things.

If you’re hoping to do the same, here are five gentle, low-key ways to make the most of summer evenings as a family—no screens, no overstimulation, just simple moments worth savoring.

1. Picnics at the Park

There’s something special about eating outside, especially as the day cools down. Bring a blanket, a few snacks, and maybe a book or a deck of cards. Let the kids run around, or just lie back and watch the sky change color. It doesn’t need to be fancy. By simply changing the pace, opportunities for entertainment will authentically happen. 

2. Game Night

If you’re staying in, try pulling out a few board games or card decks. Whether it’s just your family or a few guests, games invite conversation and laughter. Keep it straightforward by playing a game everyone likes—or make it a mini tournament where the winner's prize is picking whatever game they want to play next. 

3. Dinner Outdoors

Eating outside can turn an ordinary dinner into something memorable. If you’re worried about bugs, prep plates indoors and carry them out picnic-style. Changing up where you eat—even if it’s just the backyard—can spark new conversations and make lasting memories.

4. Shared Yardwork

This one may not sound fun, but with the right mindset, even chores can be a time of connection. Turn on some music, divide tasks, and enjoy being outside together. When you're done, celebrate with popsicles or a quick swim if you have access to a pool.

5. Evening Walks

An old favorite for a reason. Find a nearby loop—around the block, through a park, or on a local trail—and make it a habit. Use the time to talk, reflect, or simply enjoy the quiet. You might be surprised how much connection can grow from something so simple.

These evening rhythms won’t always feel convenient—and they’re definitely more effort than defaulting to the couch—but they’re worth it. They make space for to connect, rest, and notice the beauty of where you are right now.

Even if it’s just once or twice a week, try one of these ideas and see how your evenings shift. I hope they bring you the same gentle joy they’ve brought to our family.

Keep it simple, 

-Ashley 💛 

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